Yesterday was the first day of family boot-camp:September. Our lifestyle is very relaxed. We like it that way. But there’s a difference between relaxed and plain lazy. Sometimes, especially after a major event, we need some down time. But invariably there is a time to get up and going again, lest we fall into being plain lazy.
During the lead up to the wedding and wedding week, Jays (16yods) lessons ambled along as he is enrolled with a DE school however Cee’s (14yods) daily work time depends more upon me. In that I mean that I need to see that he tends to his lessons. If I drop the ball in this area, then he tends to lose motivation. If I don’t inspect his work regularly then he is at the stage where he loses interest and focus.
Before the wedding we took some time off. We took another week off after the wedding as John was home and we really needed the down time. We never really got back into it all. Hasn’t helped that John has been home from work a lot with a bad back. That completely throws any and all routine out of whack.
It’s time to get going again. I needed to put my thoughts onto paper before attempting to commit them to action. I have never found it beneficial to over schedule our day. I prefer to leave room in order to be flexible- see what the day brings!
Blocks of Time Boot Camp style
We usually work well with Blocks of Time and Family Boot-camp is arranged similarly. The main difference is that I become a drill mama, enforcing adherence to the schedule. I feel like it sucks all the fun and joy from the day… but it is Boot-camp! We need it. It’s that kick in the pants we need to get up and going again.
So, I put a few times on paper, printed it out and gave a copy to each of the boys and one goes on the fridge. I explain to the boys the purpose of Family Boot-camp, taking full responsibility for us getting into the mess we’re in. I told them that just because we are free-range homeschoolers doesn’t mean that we don’t need to learn valuable life skills like time management. (I explained this after John quickly pointed out that we are always learning. Ha, trying to beat me at my own game)
So after explaining the purpose of Family Boot-camp, I quickly went over the practical outworking of it. I didn’t labour over it to much as it gives too much room for disagreement and disgruntlement. It’s better to just do it rather than talk about it.
We do this style of Boot-camp at the beginning of each term, or after a holiday period… whenever we need to. But we don’t overdo it, otherwise it becomes burdensome and we lose the speciality of what makes up our family.
The basics of Family Boot-camp in our home are:
- Early to bed, early to rise.
- Set times of study and chores.
- Set time for computer usage.
- Learning to manage our time wisely.
- Learning to manage our resources wisely.
Here’s what the daily schedule looks like, although be aware that John follows his own schedule due to his phone/computer lessons being at different times.
Time Breakdown
9.30am – 11.30am
11.30am – 1pm
1pm – 3pm
3pm – 4.30pm
4.30pm onwards
Study period
Lunch / Free time
Study period
Productive free time
Chores / Free time
Family Boot-camp goes from Monday through to Friday. Any work/chores that have not been completed by Friday will be tended to on Saturday or consequences will apply. (That usually gets things tended to promptly)
The hardest aspect of Family Boot-camp is me. I have to be on my game. The success of boot-camp depends upon what I ‘inspect, rather than expect’. No point in setting these things in place and then slacking off and not following through with it. I have such mixed feelings about boot-camp. On one hand I despise how drill sergeant like I become yet on the other hand I really like the results of boot-camp living.
Book camp will look different in each family but I find that having a clear purpose and schedule that suits our lifestyle and goals are the important factors.
How about you? Do you have a boot camp or kick-in-the-pants time? Will you share with me about it?
LOL – we need a boot camp here for my 15 year old.
Yes, it all sounds rather harsh and rigid – the term boot camp. But it’s not like that. And truth be told, it’s more for me than for them. They follow my lead. It’s my socks that need picking up, then they’ll pick theirs up. 🙂
You put your finger on my main problem with this very good style of getting things back in order. I just find it very hard to stay on it. After a long period of being in a state of upheaval for one reason or another, we desperately need a “boot camp”. If I could just stay awake long enough 🙂 I was in the process of planning something similar for our holiday break minus the study times, just for cleaning , yard work and some good excursions however I am now committed to a “rehab” (heart) program for three days per week so there goes the neighbourhood.
Love to hear how yours goes. I will keep dreaming and one day, one week, one year….I will get organized!
Oh Ruby, I know what you mean. Life has been like that for us for a long time. But now with only two children living at home, it could/should be able to settle down. It’s obviously not the right time for you yet.
What is involved in the rehab program, Ruby? Do you have to do cardio type exercises or am I on the wrong track?
Yes education and gym/ exercise program.
I’ll blog about it, DV, when finished.
I WILL!
This sounds like exactly what ‘I’ need. My kids are still quite young and so if I don’t lead then they won’t follow! Will be thinking on it for us.
Go for it Bek! Of course I know you will take into consideration the needs of your family, your goals and your lifestyle… but it can help just to get the ball rolling.